Sexual Education

It seems like lately sexual education has become a big deal in schools.  But are they really becoming better for our children?  In class we discussed how the sex education is going about it's ways of teaching.  I am scared out of my mind to have children and to have them deal with these things.  What is going to happen to our kids if they way they are taught is in a horrible (pornographic) way? What can we do as parents to prevent this from happening?  I sure I hope I knew this answer, but I plan to be as ready as I can when that times comes around.  I hope there are ways and I hope as parents we want to protect our kids from these horrible ways that sex is being taught to our children. 

Marriage/Children

It's so funny to see how people view marriage. They will make their wedding plans and the whole wedding day to be so stressful, but then they think that after that day everything will be great. What they don't know is all the adjustments that need to be made in the first little while of marriage.  The four R's of adjustments in the first month of marriage are:
-Routines
-Resources
-Rules
-Roles
We all need to be open to change and need to make sure that both you and your partner are happy with what has been decided.

Another big adjustment that needs to be made in marriage is when the first child comes along. Some stresses that come along with a child are such things as:
-feeling like they carry most of the load
-women think their husbands don't care about the baby
-the husband feels neglected or that there might be a loss of effection
I think a great way to avoid this is a good communication.  Communication is a great way to avoid many complications in a marriage. The wife should always express her love and affection to her husband. The husband should express his love and affection to both his wife and their new baby. The wife should let the husband know if she would like help with anything around the house, so then she wont feel like she's doing everything. Communication is key!

Marriage

Marriage is such a wonderful thing.  For my Family Relations class I had to read a chapter about getting married.  I was reading some of it in the car as my husband and I were on our way to Idaho Falls.  There was one part I read talking about things that suffer in the first year of marriage. 
-approving and complimenting the partner
-making the partner laugh
-telling them "I love you"
-doing something nice for the partner
-showing physical affection
-discussing their feelings and problems
-talking over things that happened during the day
I brought these up to my husband and we had a wonderful talk about these points.  I was surprised how we were still doing well with some of those points, but the ones we were struggling with we talk about ways we could do better with them.  I love my husband and how well we can talk about things and figure out ways to make our marriage better. We are so blessed to have the opportunity to get married. I hope that everyone can have a happy marriage!

Gender Differences

Are gender differences as bad as some people make them seem? Should we all be equal in every way? Personally I feel it is good to have differences. How boring would it be if everyone (males and females) were all the same? Differences are good, they make life interesting.  It even says in the family proclamation that, "Gender is an essential characteristic of individual premortal, mortal and eternal identity and purpose". I think this also refers to our role differences in society and in our families.  I feel that these differences is what makes and keeps the family together.
I am glad that there are some jobs that are more populated with male workers and others are populated with female workers. I don't see this as a bad thing. I don't think this is being sexist. Males are better at somethings than females just because they are male, and I don't think we should try to change that.